On Decision
Couples’ Counseling

Designed for couples considering divorce or feel like they may be on the path to divorce and need guidance on their next best step(s).

 

Contemplating Divorce?

It can be a difficult and scary time full of great uncertainty.  Should you stay or should you go, is not a question to ask lightly or without wisdom.

 

We Offer Clarity

Specializing in educational and counseling services to help you decide your next best step(s).

Step One

Read the information on this page.

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Step Two

Request the free resource guide below.

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Step Three

Book a free consult or session. 

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What to Expect

On Decision Couples’ Counseling is not therapy. It is a unique approach to helping couples decide what is next when they fear divorce is on the horizon. 

On Decision Couples’ Counseling is a series of expert/custom sessions specifically designed to help individuals/couples make the best decision for their unique situation. 

After the series of sessions the outcome is clarity on the next step(s) and results in what we call Yea, Nay, or Delay. 

Outcomes

Decide to end the relationship.

Decide and commit to working on the relationship.

For an agreed amount of time.

Decide not to end, nor work on the relationship.

On Decision Couples’ Counseling was created by an affair recovery specialist (Kimberly Walton) and marriage and family therapist (Joel Walton) to meet the needs of couples in search of sound information and excellent resources to help them evaluate their next best steps when they are contemplating divorce.

Request Your Free Guide To ODCC For More Information

Appointments

We recognize the need for flexible scheduling.

So we offer several appointment options.

Options

In-person office appointments

Video/online appointments

Phone appointments

The path from where you are to where you want to be isn’t a straight line.

But the path becomes clearer with information and knowledge.

Frequently
Asked
Questions

How Does On Decision Counseling Work?

On Decision Couples’ Counseling is NOT traditional therapy, coaching, or counseling. The goal with On Decision Couples’ Counseling is more educational and investigative. The outcome is not to work to repair the relationship but to guide you to gain confidence and clarity on if you will decide to work on your marriage, dissolve it, or maintain the status quo.

We encourage you to request our free guide that shares more details about the process. 

What If My Partner Refuses To Or Can't Participate?

If your partner is unwilling or unable to participate in On Decision Couples’ Counseling we can work with just one of the parties. However, it is not ideal. Further, depending one why the partner is not able/willing to participate we might make other recommendations.

If your spouse is in the military or you have a long distance relationship we understand that logistics may be challenging. We can work together to try to accommodate them. 

NOTE: If you are interested in On Decision Couples’ Counseling and do not what your partner to attend sessions because you are in a physically abusive relationship, our advice is always to focus on your safety first.

How Long Does It Take?

We find that walking couples through five sessions specifically designed for those “on decision” is ideal, if both parties complete any assignments and activities. In a rare cases, usually due to one or both partners not attending a session or completing any assignments, it make take an additional session or two.

The goal however, is to help you gain clarity on your next step(s) and the confidence to take those steps, in the shortest time possible.

How Much Does It Cost?

The series of 5 sessions costs $525 when paid in one installment. Sessions do not expire. Single sessions are otherwise $150 each

What If I Don't Use All My Sessions?

If you reach clarity and do not need all 5 sessions, congratulations. We love that when that happens. If you do not need all 5 sessions you can save gift a session to someone else, use a pre-paid session for other services like mediation or a one to one session or save them for a later date. Your pre-paid sessions do not expire. 

If both parties are committed to the relationship, we believe that most struggling marriages can be saved.

But, we also recognize that for a variety of reason that there are many times when the best thing is to dissolve the relationship.

Each situation is unique and we honor what is unique about each couple and their situation.

Reach Out

Contact form

Call

(916) 701-7922

Email

Please use the contact form to the left.

Address

7844 Madison Ave. #108,
Fair Oaks, CA 95628

Do you see divorce as a possible future?

Research reports that 50% of divorced people regret not trying harder to save their marriage. Isn’t it worth a free phone call to find out if On Decision Couples’ Counseling can help.

Praise for On Decision Couples’ Counseling

I really appreciated that it was stressed that this is not marriage counseling. This was all about understanding the options, outcomes, and deciding if we tried marriage counseling would it make a difference. I never knew that this kind of help was available. Anyone considering divorce needs to work with her. I spent years in indecision and I am so grateful for this help. I am clear on the next steps.

Although we decided to end our marriage, Kimberly really helped us understand all our options and how to approach our options. Before working with Kimberly we couldn't agree on anything and we were constantly fighting. A collaborative divorce is now something that we think we can accomplish.

Kimberly helped us get clear and we confidently decided to postpone our divorce. After the holidays we will start marriage counseling to work on our marriage. She gave us tools to work on our communication while we are in our waiting period.

With their guidance, my husband and I decided "delay" was right for us - until our high school aged kids are off to college. We know this is not going to be easy, but she also gave us resources and information to make this manageable. We also understand common issues to expect and to be prepared for.

Terms
To
Know

Mixed Agenda Couple:
When one person in the relationship wants to save the marriage and the other wants to end the relationship. Often referred to as leaning in or leaning out. 

Separation in Place:
When a couple is no longer together, but remain living together.

Nesting / Bird Nesting:
When children stay in the home and parents take turns rotating into the home for greater stability for the children.

I will often refer to it as Rotational Parenting as parents rotate into the home.